One in five New Yorkers are dealing with some sort of mental health challenge. This was just one of the startling facts I learned yesterday from New York City’s First Lady.
Chirlane McCray, very elegant and super friendly, hosted local faith leaders and mental health professionals from all over the city for a festive breakfast at Gracie Mansion. I was honored to be invited and asked to lead a session about the power of storytelling in overcoming addiction and seducing the soul towards recovery and renewal.
The breakfast was part of the important Thrive NYC project, spearheaded by the first lady, taking on the growing epidemic of substance use and mental health issues for New Yorkers of all ages and backgrounds. On May 19th, Lab/Shul will dedicate our Sabbath Queen Friday night worship event at the Educational Alliance’s Sirovich Center to this critical cause. As part of the second Thrive NYC Weekend of Faith, we will join more than 1000 houses of worship all over the city who will shed light on a suffering that is far too often needlessly suffered in silence.
Read the New York Time’s article: Chirlane McCray Enlists New York Clergy in Mental Health Outreach
I learned a few other astonishing and heart breaking facts yesterday, as well as some compelling and important take aways that can help me be a better source of support. Together, Lab/Shul can be more conscious of what we can do as a community to foster care and sensitivity towards each other – especially towards those of us in often invisible need.
NYC is seeing higher numbers of mental health needs and is in the midst of a steep rise in the number of deaths due to overdose. Interventions are possible and the role of clergy and communities are now a major point of focus within the roadmap of important tools developed by the Thrive NYC team.
Clergy are the second responders to people’s mental health needs, coming after psychologists but before MD’s, family or friends. Also: clergy suffer from higher rates of depression, and need their own heavy dose of self love and support of others to keep on going… Good to know.
What’s storytelling got to do with all this?
With Passover still fresh in my mind, I shared the story of how only one in five of the enslaved Hebrews chose to leave Egypt. Four of five stayed behind in familiar slavery instead of taking a risk to change for something better.
How does that story meet the one in five figures we just heard?
How do stories – sacred, ancient, modern, ours, and those of others – help us make sense of our lives and map out roads for recovery?
Stories, I suggested, can seduce the soul to confront addiction, substance abuse and other mental health challenges. Story IS substance – one of the oldest and most powerful tools we as human posses to cultivate courage to change, empathy with all forms of suffering, and the resilience to hope and have big visions for better living.
I held up a small framed picture with two quotes that I had just received as a Passover gift. One of the quotes, by R. Nahman of Breslov, reminded us: “The Exodus from Egypt occurs in every human being, in every era, in every year, and in every day.”
Lab/Shul is proud to be included in this important conversation and project. We look forward to exploring our paths together further on May 19 and in the months ahead, as part of our missions towards better balanced lives. There may not always be a happy end, but the road can certainly hold more care, compassion and love.
Here’s to the stories that will help us seduce our souls and the soul of society – for good.
Thank you First Lady and your tireless team!
– Rabbi Amichai Lau-Lavie
April 20, 2017
What role do art and artists play in contemporary Judaism? Amichai Lau-Lavie, founder, Executive Director, and Spiritual Director of Lab/Shul, joins Dan and Lex to kick off a unit of episodes exploring that question in detail. He speaks about his own experiences leading an artist-driven community, and he takes on a variety of related questions on issues ranging from technology, to pluralism, to literature, and more.
Click here to read more and listen to Judaism Unbound, Episode 29 featuring Amichai.
Click here to learn more about Lab/Shul’s Kaddish ritual, which takes place via phone.
My morning’s task: grinding several pounds of horseradish into the bitter batter that will provide spoonfuls of tears at this year’s Seder. Of all gastro-Judaic treasures, horseradish is my favorite flavor and one of my most sacred annual tasks. I learned it from my father.
On April 11th, 1945 my father Naphtali, age 19, was liberated from Buchenwald. Growing up, Passover Seders always had multiple layers of meaning for our family, with the sorrows of enslavement and the reality of liberation never too far away. Only now I realize how much of my father’s horseradish making on the eve of this holy night was about the creativity of celebrating continuity, and perhaps also a bitter-sweet revenge.
This year Passover falls on April 11th. It’ll be up to me, my siblings and our children to continue his legacy by telling his incredible saga of transformation from slavery to liberation. We’ll dole out spoonfuls of bitterness, sweeten with sticky mortar, and drink to life, focusing on the radical optimism that is at the root of the Exodus story – then and now, for our people and all people.
At another Lab/Shul family Seder, Jack, 13, will be leading. Jack is an amazing young man, participating in our Raising the Bar B-Mitzvah journey along with other teens and their families. His mom Rhona, who serves on our Board of Directors, wrote this deeply moving and super funny account – “My Atheist Son Is Leading Our Seder, and It’s Going to Be Awesome.”
We’re kvelling and so glad to share with you just in time for your own Seders, hopefully rich with old and new traditions, familiar and fresh flavors, deep questions, real conversations, big hugs, and open doors to more hope within us and in our world. (Looking for a few last min readings or thought provoking questions to add to your ritual dinner theater? We’ve got you covered!)
May all the flavors of these holy days, bitter and sweet, bring us a taste of what it’s like to be even better when we’re together.
– Rabbi Amichai
The bride squinted at my red “Make America Great Again” baseball cap, then looked me in the eye. “Do you really like Trump?”
To which I replied, “Are you really a bride?”
She pouted, turning her head away as her mother started laughing.
“Honey, it’s a costume, he’s kidding, it’s Purim, right?” she explained to her five year old daughter. The kindergarten bride now turned to look me again through a veil, heavy mascara and even heavier suspicion.
“It’s not a funny costume” was her final verdict as she walked away towards the bouncy house that now filled the entire synagogue sanctuary.[…]